My wife likes to watch dumb shows on television…….so naturally, I pay a little bit of attention to them…….they’re all dumb but she loves them, as do most women……………and you can guess which shows I’m talking about. Lately she’s been watching Lala’s wedding show. Now I like Lala, I think she’s cool but she doesn’t need to be followed around because she’s getting married, that’s just my opinion. I have this opinion due to the fact that I detest any show dealing with weddings. My reasoning behind this is for the fact that more and more these days, I’m starting to believe that a lot of women want a wedding and not necessarily a marriage.
Think about this!!! Bridezillas!!! These chics could give less than a damn about the long term commitment and hard work that’s going into maintaining a marriage. They just want the shine that comes with the wedding. They want the cameras present to capture them acting a fool, cussing out everybody that’s involved in the wedding from the groom to the ring bearer to the preacher, and trying to assert their dominance as the baddest bitch in the city by going to clubs and kicking other women in the stomach.
Granted I have no clue what goes on when the camera stop rolling but I know these women aren’t asking the show to come back so they can show how happy they are since the wedding. The Bachelor on ABC………………didn’t they have a special wedding episode?!?! Come on. You know that was strictly for rating and they went head in. It’s an opportunity to get a free dress, publicity, and an open bar at your reception. The dude in this situation is just as guilty. I feel like this, if your truly in it to spend the rest of your life with somebody, then you’d be willing to just go to the courthouse. A wedding is nice but it’s not a necessity to a healthy marriage.
By now you’ve figured out that I’m just venting. I love my wife and she hasn’t shown TOO many signs of only wanting a wedding…………………….I just had a few random thoughts and Twitter limits me to 140 characters and I just don’t want to try to make this a status on Facebook. I just wanted to get this off my chest. If you’re really in love, you want a marriage, if you’re more excited to have a wedding……….throw in the towel.
